Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Update !**!

Alright I know it has been quite a while since I have written, sorry about that. Sometimes there is nothing worth talking about. Chemo was finished in August an all seems well. I had surgery on Friday the 20Th of Nov, the port and expander were removed,the expander was replaced.My hair is only about 1 inch. Now I will start having the skin stretched several times until I have reached the size I will be happy with. I'm thinking Feb/March 2010.

All the girls are fine. I will tell you they are just about grown weird to look at them and know their time has or will be coming quickly for being on their own. Kimberlee is working and going to school. The others are in school. I know part of the reason I have done well is because the kids kept me running. Now the holidays are just around the corner, something else to keep us busy busy. Signing off now.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Check out Kims Slide Show you'll love it

Double Click the link then double click on the show, then right click for full screen.

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Those Larsen Girls!



She did it, all by herself. I am so proud of Kimberlee, the graduation was short and sweet, but one that will be remembered by me forever. The BBQ went great, we played the slide shows of the girls Kim and Ray it was super. Good food,ice cream, cake and the folks who took the time to share it with us, thank you so much.We are so sad when we send them off to kindergarten, we are once again emotionally hit when they are heading out on their own. I hope that Kimberlee makes the best of what she has before her, I know she has grown up to be a wonderful young lady and we love her very much. Kimberlee will start college in the fall in the dental program.

Kendall hit the blue skies with Rachel and her family heading for the Country Music Festival in Nashville Tennessee. She ad a great flight and has the perfect hotel room there is a mall in the resort. She ran into Charlie Pride but didn't know who he was, that too bad. I told her to go find him and get his autograph for me, she said send a picture to me I forgot what he looks like. She off and running with the autograph thing they were with Carrie Underwood today. They have tons of things to do while they are there. Grace Land, Dolly World evening concerts every night, shopping, what more could a girl want. She will return home Monday with lots of goodies I'm sure.

Charlee is hanging home getting ready for the school year to end. Hopeful she will be ready for High School a big change, everything counts from here on out.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

ANOTHER UPDATE !!!

Yep its been a while since I have written, sorry about that. Summer is right around the corner, can't wait for that sunshine.
I have started the 12 week treatment chemo. This is a different medication that I will get once a week, 11 to go. I thought this would be wrapped up in June I was wrong, chemo will last until August. I will have two more surgeries, the Dr punctured my spacer and it now has to be removed and replaced, that will not be until after chemo has been completed. Looks as though everything will stretch out through Feb 2010.

Grandma has had her share of issues too. Her shoulder has torn again, she will need another surgery. She is very disappointed about this. She worked so hard to do everything the Dr said and still didn't work. They have not scheduled that yet, will keep you posted though.

Miss Kendall will be taking a trip to Tennessee the Country Music Awards June 10 with her buddy Rachel. Make A Wish has made all the arrangements. Can't wait til they come back with pictures. I told Kendall to go to Dolly World and get her mom some boobs. They will get to go back stage with a few of the singers, they are so excited. Rachel is on her last treat at this time, radiation for ten days and she should be in the clear thank the lord.

Kimberlee did it.She will graduate on JUNE 7 at the Tacoma Dome, we are having a BBQ the Saturday before. She has really grown up, This is when I as a parent looks back, hoping that I raised her to the best of my ability. I am so proud of her.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

IT"S EASTER, PRAISE THE LORD!!!!!!


Check out the slide show ( click on it to enlarge)for easter almost cracked me up!! The kids were so ashamed, safeway, walmart then the moose. Boy I had fun today!!!:)

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase...MLK JR.

7th Update March 29, 2009

Chemo was on Monday the 23rd. I was graciously escorted by my buddy and sister in law Cindy. She will go any ware for a photo opportunity. We got there at 10:00 got started with meds about 11:30 finished up at 3:30 or so. It wasn't that bad, I have felt pretty good this week except for some heartburn, hot flashes, a small amount of nausea. Can't complain too much. Cindy was great company she went to the mall and brought back a cinnamon roll yum yum. The nurses said to go ahead and eat one every time I come for chemo. I had lots of company with the other patients. They will surely have to cheer up cause I will not sit and pout with them, we're all in the same boat I will get them smiling. Ellen's on at 11:00 thank you Ellen for cheering me up during chemo. Cindy took pictures of my new Ellen cut with the Ellen show in the shot. By the time we were done and ready to go everyone knew we were scrap booking this stuff the nurses even gave me stuff the next day to add to the book. I will have 7 more treatments to go, every other week. With plenty of visits in between for physical therapy, Breast Dr and chemo follow ups.
Stacey has fixed the hair again and it looks super thank you Stace.......



Charlee is turning big 15 on the 30th. Seems that you blink a few times next thing you know you're babies are darn near grown, scary, can we just freeze dry them. I didn't say clone I said freeze dry, time flies. She is playing tennis and really seems to enjoy the sport. She had a game and didn't hit one ball, but she will I'm sure in time.


Grandma is still hitting physical therapy every week and she is waiting to regain some strength in her arm. Her and I should be doing exercises with our arms so we can get more movement. Its been tough on her not being as active as she was before all this surgery. She deserves a vacation maybe we'll all get the chance to take a break after this stuff is all done.


I am going to be brief on this next paragraph. Kendalls great family friend Rachel whom has spend the last few months hanging out with us has started chemo for Hodgkin's Disease, she called to tell me as I was having an appointment in my chemo Dr office, blew me away, I still want to pinch pinch, it unbelievable. She has a rough but do-able road ahead of her, she is strong and will come through with flying colors. I would never ask that anyone go through this, her and I will prevail. I wonder all the time now what the odds of this happening are, you tell me? Just double the prayers for her and her parents please. She's not alone and nor am I. This is not something you do the buddy system with, but it has happened. We have big plans ahead for the two of us. This young lady was suppose to do her volunteer work that same week she was hospitalized,she was admitted to the pediatrics oncology floor, where she was to volunteer. She attends college full time with a 4.0 GPA and is 16 years old. AMAZING. She will resume school in the fall, for now she will focus on getting better. Love you lots kiddo.


By the way check this snow stuff out Blake is enjoying a ride in the snow!

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Playing around!


What do you think of this layout? Its from a place called http://www.picnik.com

Sunday, March 22, 2009

John's Transportation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Happy Birthday John!!!!!!





A few pics I took before the Party. John picked up his license at 8:30 am at the DOL. He was not first in line, but he is finally free. WATCH OUT MIKE! John made aspecial trip over that morning, was grandma surprised. Kendall had to get in the photo too, just look for her in the back. John had to come back in when Kendall told him BE SAFE! Boy do those cousins love each other.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

How many Johns can you find answer next week.




Double click the photo to enlarge.

FUN!!!!





I Give To You


I GIVE TO YOU

A fire to light inside your heart,to feel the warm embers glow.

A piece of the sun's warm rays,to bask in it's fiery show.

I Give To You

A piece of a rainbow to color your world,when all seems totally gray.

Some roses for the sweet perfume,to kiss your senses with its bouquet.

I Give To You

A sprinkling of some twinkling stars,to wish upon at night.

The morning dew to kiss the day,To bask in it's delight.

I Give To You

A summer's breeze to caress your face,to show that someone cares.

The sweet song of the nightingale,to remind you that I am always there.

I GIVE TO YOU

My lasting friendship, always true.A gift of love to hold inside,

whenever you feel blue,or just because you need a friend.

This friend...that will always be there for you!!

Monday, March 9, 2009

UPDATE # 6 March 9th 4:15am Can't sleep again.

UPDATE # 6 March 9th 4:15am Can't sleep again.


OK its been a while since I have written, sorry. I am just as busy now as I was three months ago, maybe more so. I spend lot of time running the roads for Dr appt., the kids and just doing my normal daily stuff. I kept very busy last week doing the wig thing, oh boy was that something. You all won't be seeing it for a while two weeks or so??? Carolyn and mother decided to go with me for my adventures. First stop was the Breast Cancer Resource Center, what a amazing place. I got loaded up with hats, scarfs, books, an a wig. They also offer classes that I will be going to here and there, Managing Hair Loss and Look Good Feel Better are just two of the many they have to offer. To be able to get fit for the wig I had to have another haircut, if you haven't seen it yet you will, contain yourself please. The next stop was at the plastic surgeon for a follow up and saline. Then to the Chemo Dr we went, will be starting in a week or so. I also will go to my second appointment with the physical therapist and plastic surgeon today more saline. Check out the slide show on my blog for those wig pics, you guess which one I decided on. Mother is seeing her therapist they told her she still has two or more months to work on a complete recovery. She has good days and days that are not so good, bless her heart. The kids are all hangin in there, they liked the new hair style and the wig. See ya for now, have a wonderful day,week,month. Please sign my guess book and add a photo. You will find the slide show on the left, hope the music doesn't drive you nuts. Fell free to comment also.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Monday, February 9, 2009

Momma's Brownies

Update #5

Update #5



I did it!!! The surgery went very well according to my support team" My Family". I was admitted at 6:45 and starting getting prepped for the table, and it wasn't the kitchen table. I had plenty of company that morning. Thank you all for being there I love you all so much. Pastor Wayne stopped by and we prayed for me and the Doctors and all went great thank GOD. According to My Family I spouted off a wee bit, image that??? Nancy misbehaving no way, yep it did happen. Ok so I called the medical folks liars, complaining that I needed pain meds and they went to get them, ye right I knew better they weren't gettin nothing. Carolyn went to make sure they were getting the meds and she ended up on my list of lairs too. I still love her tons. Ripley's believe it or not Chuck was just not his self he was overtaken by aliens he was absolutely great the best male nurse I have ever ha,d I am so glad he was able to hang in there with me, it really made things go so much better. "Sometimes it takes the worst to bring out the best in someone." My quote, I just copyrighted that. He had company while staying overnight with me, Blondie my sister Stacey, OK so she left a few times to shop so what that it was 10:30 at night leave it to her to find a store that is open. She was a big help, love her lots too. OK Stacey was in charge of pain management even if I didn't want her help, we got it anyway sure can't try to tell Stacey no, she just doesn't accept that. She even had a diet coke
2 liter there to keep me hydrated. Flowers from Jackie and Ross were right in front of me they were beautiful. I'm sure that was fox news on the TV most of my stay, would that have been Chuck keepin up on the news?? Stacey entertained herself with magazines. Wish I could have taken pictures of them sleeping on their little cots. I was dressed,make up on and had already walked down the hall at four am then by 9:00sitting on the bed so that I would be discharged when the docs came by. Yep I was out of there, oops my ride happen to be out shopping again, had to call her to come back. I am home and have been since Tuesday the 3rd, I am getting around, looking pretty. I have lots of things to keep me busy, I have drain tubes every where,for now I am numb in my upper half,that wears off and I will feel the pain, hopefully it will be bearable.

I will begin my scraping this week One chapter will be WATCH ME GROW! get it? I am going to be filled will saline over time until reach my size.

I Will only have to have chemo, there were only two nodes involved, no radiation yep eee! The chemo I think will start the first week in March. I ca do this you just watch me.

Mother will be doing physical therapy in yelm, close to home three times a week she hurts more now than when she had surgery. She had a hard time seeing her daughter after surgery. Love my mom that's for sure. Kim took pics yucky pics, I was not looking good. I thank all of you for being here for me, it makes things so much more bearable.



Thank you all,

http://makemywayonedayatatime.blogspot.com/



Nancy

Wednesday, January 28, 2009




My Hair Cutting Day






All the kids were with me on my hair cuttin day. Ok I cried just a little. Charlee and Daija took a swing with the cutting tools. Enjoy the pics.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Miss Kendall Hits The Headlines!!




Kendall made sure she was looking good when the reporter stop by, Kendall just knew they were there just to see her. Its cool to see her in the paper at such an exciting time. Just maybe a Women will be President some day, you just never know.

Love your MOTHER......

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

4th Update



I am watching the inauguration of our next "President of the United States".

Haven't written in a while was waiting for more information on Surgery or Chemo which to do first. Surgery will be first followed by Chemo. I will not know until after the surgery if I will need radiation. Hopefully "God Willing" I will sail will give the phone number here in this message so that you all may call if you'd like to. through this coming out smelling like a rose. I will spend 1-2 days at Allenmore Hospital in Tacoma 253-459-6633 February 2. "GROUND HOGS DAY" I will have the nurses station give an update if you call. I have decided not to have visitors because I think I will be emotionally fried for a while. I don't see myself smiling so soon, but I will a few days later. I more than likely will not be answering the cell either. I'm sure I will be super drugged up.

I will admit I am a little nervous, but am trying to stay positive. I will be doing a chop chop on the hair, I have decided to cut to a short length and then cut again shorter in a week or two.This will allow me adjustment time because I do love that hair. My granddaughter will join me in the cutting ceremony. She is only cutting a few inches off, I'm taking the plunge. I did think about allowing her to cut my hair for me but I'm sure I will look as though the Chemo was first HA HA. I haven't cut my hair short since 1999, ten years ago. No laughing when you see me, no more pen in the hair, no more long hair dos. Will see maybe I'll get curly red hair sure hope not. If I get Grey I be devastated.

Mom is recovering just fine she starts therapy in a 2 more weeks. She can't wait to get out of that sling. I'm sure the first thing she'll do will be driving to the store. It too bad that my issues will begin as hers is ending. I don't at all look forward to laying in a bed even for a few days. Hope that I will be up and moving quickly.

We had some entertainment over the weekend. I rode a quad and will never do it again. Thought I was going to wet my pants, when my buddy Marvin decided to give me a ride because I wasn't driving fast enough. The more I begged to have him stop the faster he went laughing the whole time. It not or me, but I guess I can mark that off my list of things to do in my lifetime. I offered to take mother for a ride she opted out wonder why? Was she afraid of the photos or the ride itself? I'll leave the quading to the younger kids, I'll just keep my eyes closed.

I want to Thank everyone for all their support and prayers they really do work. I am so so happy with the team of doctors, they are wonderful. Keep all those doctors in your prayers also they are my partners right now. With the economy in such a disaster please just e-mail me best wishes for a speedy recovery. That will mean just as much to me. Thank you again for everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love Nancy

Sunday, January 4, 2009

3rd Update

Hello,

Its me again. Just a shorty, going for a PET Scan Monday, that will be an overall picture of the bod. Because the surgeon and Chemo Dr are undecided as to the direction of treatment they will be having a Breast Conference next week with several Dr's to get insight as to a treatment plan. I think that is good news for me just knowing they care enough to give my case thought. I won't have an update again until the scan and conference are completed. I am looking for extras for the new movie I am producing called "The Final Nerve" Starring my husband Chuck Larsen. Extras aren't paid but you get quality time with the star Chuck Larsen. Credit will be given at the end for those who can handle Mr. Smarty Pants.Can you tell he is a little cooped up with a bunch of girls? The girls are out for winter break plus snow that = total insanity for me. Mom is feeling better, just a few more weeks in that sling that I catch her trying to sneak out of. Once again I have to scold her when she is misbehaving. Ain't keeping that Missy out of the kitchen oh no, all I have to do is tell her I'm calling Carolyn and she straightens right up. I can't very well ground her now can I? I know to she can't wait til until she is able to get in that car,she'll be out of here.Right now she gets field trips into town she gets so excited.Stacey fix her up this morning with a foot pedicure and massage, oh ye painted nails too.It doesn't take muck to make her smile. She is the bestest mom ever, I love her so much.

Nancy and Jean

Friday, January 2, 2009

Thursday, January 1, 2009

1st update

Ok where do I begin? Mother has had her operation and is recovering on loads of drugs. I limit my communication with her because in the first three days sounded out there and I'm sure she needed that just to deal with the pain. Spoke with her on Sunday while I was on my way to church, she sounded so much more like herself. No I don't have her locked up, she staying with Carolyn and her family, so that she could receive some peace and quite while making it through the first few days. Its almost like her and I were separated just so that we can both focus on things. She is in good hands, Dewayne was "Grandma" sitting on Thursday while Carolyn was at work. I did over hear him tell her to bend over it was time for a temperature reading HA HA. Everyone pray for a speedy recovery for mother, were starving HA HA! She is such a special person. Christmas is a little offset this year, this is no what we all needed. But we will survive!!!!!! I have taken some time off from work so I could take care of this speed lump of mine. I tried to focus and work but it didn't work out I'll return in February, with the economy so screwed up whats the difference, It was a wash for me I was only working 20 hours a week. I have had the second biopsy, they took five samples two from lympnodes and three lumps, one is already tested and was positive for cancer in November. They want to check and see if the others are clean,HOPE HOPE for good results, hopefully I will get good results on Monday the 22ND. The blood test gene marker test came back and was negative thank the LORD! At least this is not passed to my sisters and my daughters, I am thankful for that. The DR. asked that I make a appointment with the plastic surgeon and have set that appointment up for the 29 of December. When I meet with the Dr after the samples come back, she will decide on the route of surgery. If I have to remove my little friends, I will just adjust. I plan on sending my husband Chuck to the boo bee store, if he chooses double D's I will know he was never happy with the B's, boy he'll be caught in a lie. Just kidding..... He returned here Wednesday from AZ. It took him four days to get back normally it takes a day and a half. Boy was his a nervous wreck the weather was terrible. Then to come back and deal with all this stuff, hope the lord blesses him. The kids are doing ok. They are out for winter break and got an early start due to the 8" of snow we received. I should be making snow angels on Dad and Danielle's grave doesn't that sound fun? The holidays kinda are weird due to all the things going on. Enjoy this family photo getting it was like as they say pulling teeth. I should have spiked the punch with Prozac, HA HA. Will keep you posted. Lots of love Nancy We may not always realize
that every thing we do,
affects not only our lives,
but touches others, too.

For a little bit of thoughtfulness
that shows someone you care,
creates a ray of sunshine
for both of you to share.

Yes, every time you offer
someone a helping hand,
you show a friend,
you care and understand.

Every time you have
a kind and gentle word to give,
you help someone find beauty
in this precious life we live.

For happiness brings happiness
and loving ways bring love,
and giving is the treasure
that contentment is made of.

Thank you!

This was not easy getting everyone together.

This was not easy getting everyone together.
Happy Holidays!!!

1924: The Ethics of Friendship

1924: The Ethics of Friendship
It is not enough to make friends; you must know how to keep them. When you make a new friend whose friendship you value and wish to keep, learn his idiosyncracies and respect them. Learn his little peculiarities of manner and bear with him. Force yourself to be conscious always of the fact that while he has faults of which you are aware, you have faults of which he is aware. The ideal friend overlooks these little things and looks only for the big.
Doubt and suspicion are fatal to friendship. A friend worth having is a friend worth trusting. In time of doubt there should be a frank explanation. A true friend will not listen to criticism from others regarding his friend; will never gossip about him; will protect him from slander; will refuse to hear or believe evil of him.
There should be absolute sincerity in friendship. If your friend has done something or said something of which you disapprove, go to him and talk to him about the matter. You are false to your friendship if you talk to others about it.
If you want to correct a friend for some mistake he has made, do so with all the grace and tact you would use in correcting a stranger. No one resents being corrected. It is the manner of the person who makes the correction that is usually resented. Your friend is certainly entitled to as much consideration as you show your acquaintances.
Too many of us feel that we can take liberties with our friends that we would not dare to take with strangers. Handle your friend's book as carefully as you would the book of a new acquaintance, more carefully than you would handle your own. Do not feel that because it is with your friend that you have an engagement that you can be half an hour late. Real friendship is founded on courtesy, kindness, and understanding.

PONDER THIS

If 10% is ok for God, then 10% should be ok with the IRS!!!!!!!

Sisters? Friends? You guess

Sisters?  Friends? You guess
Cindy & Nancy 1999??

Yep Its Me!